Infertility, Surrogacy

How to find a surrogate on your own

June 22, 2014

Several people have asked me recently how to find a surrogate on your own without using an agency, so I thought I’d share my ideas since we did surrogacy independent of an agency.  An agency was not an option for us because it was way too expensive. While I do think you have to put some effort into finding a surrogate on your own, I will be the first to admit that what you really need is a healthy dose of good luck.

For more information about the whole surrogacy process, including how to do it and how to afford it for up to 75% less than an agency, see my Complete guide to independent gestational surrogacy.

Ideas for finding a surrogate

  1. Tell everyone you know!  Share this with friends and family on a one-on-one basis as you see people. Share your story and your interest in pursuing surrogacy and ask if they know of anyone.  This will also serve to ask them indirectly as well. If people don’t know you are infertile, if they don’t know your story, if they don’t know you are specifically looking for a surrogate; how on earth would they offer to help or connect you with the right person?  The more information, the better. People really do want to help.  They will emotionally connect with your story and will want to help you if only to share your story.  IF YOU DO NOTHING ELSE, THIS WOULD BE THE MOST IMPORTANT!  If you can’t do this, which is fine, you really might have to consider using an agency instead.  Most intended parents I know end up using a family member, a friend or a friend of a friend.  They got the word out and someone volunteered.  This is where the luck parts comes in.  We aren’t all that lucky.  If not, keep reading.
  2. Talk to your clinic. Make sure your clinic knows of your interest in this as well.  Hopefully, you’ve already talked to them about it.  Ask them if they know of anyone interested.
  3. Social Media. Post about it on social media. This requires you to be open about it, but if you want to find a surrogate on your own, you will have to break out of your comfort zone.
  4. Post on surrogacy articles. Set up a Google alert for surrogacy and check out articles in major newspapers, magazines or websites published online regarding surrogacy. If it allows comments, say that you are looking for a surrogate and share your URL or email. A friend did this for me and I was contacted by seven women right after she did that.  They were all over the country and who knows how serious they were, but it opened a lot of doors. We didn’t pursue any of these people, because we were already pursuing things with Nicole.
  5. Consider creating a website.  You can use wordpress.com, which is free and easy. Use this to market yourselves to potential surrogates. We created a website to market ourselves for potential surrogates and adoption matches.
  6. Create a Facebook page and asked friends/family to share — we had 300 likes in 3 days. (A bunch of strangers liked our page, which was perfect because it expanded our reach.)
  7. Make a pitch to your local media.  TV, magazines and newspapers.  Share your infertility story as a means of infertility awareness.  You never know who might be watching and want to help.
  8. Join my free meet-up group Join my Surrogacy Meet-up group on Facebook  that I created to help intended parents and gestational carriers find one another.  No promises, just trying to help.  Also, search for other Facebook groups on surrogacy. (Note: This is a very informal gathering place. It’s not monitored closely, regulated or anything. It’s just an opportunity for you to meet possible carriers. Use good judgment.)
  9. Surrogacy Forums – there are several and I checked them out, but never felt right about using them.  Seemed so spammy or just people looking to make money.  Not only could we not afford a high rate, but we didn’t want someone who was only doing it for the money.  I just never could get into these websites.

It’s a hard process, because you can’t do anything to move the process forward at times. It took us a year and a half to find a surrogate and get started.  In the end, we got really lucky with our surrogate, but that first year and a half was fraught with many failed matches and heartache. We thought it would never happen!

Let me help you

When people read our story, they would contact me and ask me to help them find a surrogate, too.  For a while, I was trying to remember who had emailed me and if I knew of anyone, but it was too much. So, I created a Facebook group for surrogates and intended parents to come together to meet and match.

Some of the people that matched…

“This page and your blog have been incredibly informative and truly a TOOL in our journey thus far. We did match with a gestational carrier after connecting on this FB page and are in the process of working with a fertility clinic and hope to transfer this winter.”  – Evan, Intended Father

“I met an amazing couple through posting my profile here…I would like to thank you!!! We are in final steps and very excited for the future!” – Kathy, Gestational Carrier

“The decision to use a GC was not easy and going through an agency was not affordable.  We met a really sweet girl through your site who is going to be our GC and it wouldn’t have happened without your help.  So, again thank you so very much!”  – Corinne

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  • Angelica

    Thanks Whitney for being so transparent and sharing what you have learned. You really are one of my IF heroes!

    • Whitney Anderson

      🙂 You are too sweet, as always. ♥

  • Out of curiosity because I am only familiar with the Indian situation which is purely based on financial compensation: is compensation part of the deal there at all, or is it only altruism? Are there laws about this, and do they differ from state to state?

    • Whitney Anderson

      SciChick,

      For us, yes, compensation was part of the deal, but it was much less than what some GCs are compensated, therefore part altruism. For some, where it’s a family member or a friend carrying, I don’t think any money changes hands. Yes, the laws differ from state to state. In Virginia, a surrogate may only be compensated, not paid. So, compensated for any co-pays, medical expenses, maternity clothes, unpaid time off of work, for childcare, etc. In other states, compensated surrogacy isn’t legal at all…like New York. But, there’s a bill right now that seeks to change that.

  • Candace-Chris Wohl

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  • Alicia

    Thank you for such a great blog and informative post! My husband and I struggled with IF for 3 years and, during that time, found out that neither one of us could have biological children. Just as we were preparing to move on to donor embryos, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and the BRCA2 gene. I’m cancer free now (yay!), but will be having a hysterectomy next week to reduce my risk of ovarian cancer. Despite the setbacks, we’re not giving up on our dream of becoming parents. We still plan to use donor embryos, but we now hope and pray to find a gestational surrogate to carry our baby for us, as well. You post has given me some great ideas on how to spread the word and find our perfect match! Wishing you and your family all the very best!

  • Julie

    I just came across your page and I am so glad I did. I was born without a uterus and my husband and I are now starting our journey to become parents. I never really thought about finding a surrogate on our own and I had no idea how we could ever afford an agency. Thank you for sharing your story and opening up other options for us!

  • Christian

    My partner and I live in the Bay Area and are looking for a surrogate. Please email me at cjmartin@colorado.edu if you are interested. Christian

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  • marie

    Great post, Whitney! I live in California and my husband and I are looking for a surrogate independent of an agency due to the high cost. It has been challenging. Hopefully, some luck will come our way soon. Thank you for your post.

    Marie

    • Whitney Anderson

      Marie,

      Good luck to you! Have you joined my FB group?

      • marie

        Thank you, Whitney! I need all the luck I can get. Yes, I have joined your group. It has been helpful reading the comments, knowing I am not alone.

        Warmest Regards,

        Marie

  • Danielle

    Hello I am a Caucasian woman…32 yrs old. Blonde hair and blue eyes looking to be a surrogate for someone. If interested please contact me through email. Dricciardi912@gmail.com

    • jon

      Hi if you are still available , please contact me at Aum20015@yahoo.com

    • Tami

      Hi I’m very interested please let me know.

  • Ellen Perry

    Hello everyone! My name is Ellen Perry and I’m so glad to have found this blog. I’m 27 years old, married, and we have a 1 year old son named Sawyer that is the light of our lives. Now that we have a baby of our own, my husband and I can fully appreciate thw incredible joy of being parents, and we love the idea of helping someone else achieve this same happiness. We live in Florida, and we are not interested in any kind of payment. It really is our desire to help someone have the baby they’ve tried so hard for, especially someone who just can’t afford the considerable fees of an agency. Feel free to contact me by email if you would like to discuss this further. My email is emperry55@gmail.com.

    • Whitney Anderson

      Ellen,
      You are just amazing to put that out there! That’s how my surrogate felt, too. Thank God for women like you. ♥ I have a couple people in mind. I’ll be in touch.

    • felicia miller

      Hi I tried to email u this is my email millerfelicia28@gmail.com

    • Deja Alexandrino

      Hi Ellen, I’m Deja, we’d like to know if you already has found intended parents .If you could please send me an email djasandiego@yahoo.com. It has been a long journey for us and anyone here in this forum. Thank you very much. Many blessings!

    • bonnie

      hello Ellen, my name is bonnie. My husband and I have been looking for a surrogate for over 3 years. I am unable to have children due to being raped when I was a preteen. We would like to talk to you. Our number is 1-434-286-2539 and email bswnjlw2015@gmail.com. Thank you for reading this.

    • Jessica

      I live in Columbus Indiana. My name is Jessica. I am desperate to have a child. Call me if possible 812-341-6058

    • Tami

      Hi are u still willing to be a surrogate? I live in Fla and I am so wanting to be a mom and give so much love to a child!! Please let me know. Thanks.

  • Amanda Valdorian

    Hi, my name is Amanda Brown and it has been my life long dream to become a surrogate. Unfortunately, dealing with the agencies is simply too frustrating & I would like to talk directly to potential parents. I have 2 healthy children, boy&girl, and I no longer want any of my own, but I enjoy being pregnant! Both pregnancies were healthy & it was the best I had ever felt. I live in North Carolina so options are hard. I don’t know if Medicaid covers surrogacy but if not I would not mind paying for an insurance that DOES. My fiance & my mother are fully supportive of me. I am 24 yrs old. I would love to find a couple near by that needs a surrogate. I am willing to do counseling & a psychological evaluation if necessary. My email is: queenvaldorian@gmail.com God Bless all of you & I hope to hear from you.

    • felicia miller

      hello my name is felicia and i live in Riviera Beach FL. me and my husband are looking for a surrogate because i can no longer have kids because when i had my 2 kids i died on the table with both of them and my dr said i could no longer have any more so i got my tubes tied, clipped and burned and now we want another baby to complete our family if u would like can u please call me or email me 561-932-4118 millerfelicia28@gmail.com thanks

    • Mylo Castaneda

      Are you Armenian ?

    • bonnie

      my husband and I are looking for a surrogate. I had to have a hysterectomy due to rape along time ago. We are hoping to talk to you soon.

    • jessica

      Hi i read your blog. I’m very interested. I live in Indiana Columbus. My name is Jessica. You can call me 812-341-6058

    • Amy Kirkland Brown

      Hi Amanda, I just emailed you. 🙂 Hope to hear from you.

    • Tami

      Hi are u still willing to be a surrogate?

  • Stacie Gillette

    My name is Stacie and my new husband and I desperately want a child. Unfortunately I had a hysterectomy when I was 25 because of uterine cancer. I have one ovary and good eggs.
    We are looking for a surrogate but cannot afford the agency prices. I know it’s a lot to ask a person to do but I figure it’s worth a shot.
    Stacie.sessum@gmail.com

    • Maria Todd

      my name is Maria Todd I am 29 years old I live in Connecticut I am a mother of five wonderful children now that me and my fiancé are done having kids we would love to help some achieve that goal.

      • bonnie

        my husband and I have been trying to find a surrogate. you seem like a match to us. email please at bswnjlw2015@gmail.com

      • bonnie

        Can you please help us, by becoming our surrogate mother.

  • Maria Todd

    I hope so too. Hi! my name is Maria Todd I glad I found this page too I am looking to become a surrogate. I can tell you a little about me and my family to see if will work for you?

  • Robyn Stewart

    Hello,
    My name is Robyn and I am looking for a surrogate as well. I tried IVF which only produced 9 miscarriages. After that I adopted my beautiful son. I would love to give him a sibling through surrogacy. I am single and in California. Please email me for more information.

    robynstewart@mac.com

    • YSW

      Hi Robyn,

      Do you mind me asking how you adopted your son? I am considering adoption as I have no confidence in finding a surrogate, and I also live in California. I am getting rather frustrated with the county foster-adopt system but also can’t afford hefty fees for a private agency. Just wondering about your path. Thanks 🙂

  • Arykah Trabosh

    Hello:
    My husband and I are looking for a gestational surrogate. We have a beautiful healthy daughter which I was fortunate enough to carry. I can no longer carry a pregnancy and we would love to add another child to our family using a gestational surrogate. Please contact me if you are interested in giving my family the gift of another child.

    Thank you,
    Arykah
    arykah.trabosh@gmail.com

    • Brenda

      Hello, I am a two time experienced surrogate 2011 & 2013 I am 49 very healthy on no medications and I am have been given the ALL CLEAR by my doctor who did my last delivery in 2013 to be a surrogate again. I live in Orange County, California. I look forward to hearing from you brekennedy@aol.com.

  • Deja Alexandrino

    Hello! Hola! Oi!
    My husband and I are looking for a gestational surrogate in San Diego, CA. Please contact us if you’d like to know more about our history.Thank you very much for your time. Email:djasandiego@yahoo.com.

    • Tracy Zhang

      Hi Deja,
      Did you find a right GC? If you have someone helped please share something that makes you lucky. We are in San Diego as well and on the same board as you do. Thank you!

      • Brenda

        Hello, I am a two time experienced surrogate 2011 & 2013 I am 49 very healthy on no medications and I am have been given the ALL CLEAR by my doctor who did my last delivery in 2013 to be a surrogate again. I live in Orange County, California. I look forward to hearing from you brekennedy@aol.com.

  • Maine

    Great pointers! But about the forums or groups wherein you can ask for a surrogate for sure they will ask for a payment, this is based on my experience when I tried to look for surrogate they just ask payment and you will not be sure if the surrogate will really agree on your terms.. So what I did is that I seek help to have it done abroad. This company named PlacidWay medical tourism referred me to have it done in Europe. And yes it was a successful one, currently i have my twins. But this is my case maybe the above mentioned tips might work to others.

  • Jon

    hi we are located in Massachassetts and looking for GS please contact us at Aum20015@yahoo.com

    • yatophia

      Hello my name is Yatophia Harris i live in Ma and willing to helo im 25 married and i have my own child my contact information is yatophiamoore@gmail.com

      • Tami

        Hi are u still willing to help?

  • Evan

    This is an incredible website and resource, especially being a Virginia Resident. I’ve learned so much and picked up many tips as my partner and I begin to navigate these waters. It still feels overwhelming right now, so much to consider, so many opportunities to deter us from having the family we want, but this site alone makes me feel like it can happen. Thanks so much for putting so much thought and effort in to sharing and helping others. Having this example is like finding my guidebook! Thank you! I just requested access to join your FaceBook group, not sure if there is any information you need in order to approve?
    Thanks again so much, from two men in the DC Metro area of Virginia, looking to start a family and hopefully have twins (one-each)!

    • Whitney Anderson

      Thank you, Evan. Such kind comments. Good luck to you.

      • Akuchi Kendra

        God bless you for this website.so thoughtful of you making people dreams come though.

  • jessica

    In desperate need and want of a child. My name is Jessica. I live in Columbus Indiana. If anyone can help please call me 812-341-6058.

  • LaKisha Beverly

    Hi, this article has brought my husband and I HOPE! I’m currently recovering from a cornual ectopic pregnancy, where the embryo was growing outside my uterus in the corner and the surgeon cut that corner out as well as my right tube. My left tube is gone due to ectopic pregnancy that burst. Due the trauma, doctors recommend surrogacy. But our modest incomes does not afford this luxury. I hope to be added to the private Facebook page. And as we explore your site, we pray that Lord guides us to the info needed to reach our dream of having a healthy baby!

    God Bless you!
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  • Yatophia Harris

    Hello my name is Yatophia Harris im 25 and im happliy married these past couple of months ive really been giving some thought in helping families that cant afford expensive surrogacy So im willing to help any woman thats out there and wonts a child and cant im willing to help you for a low price. I just had a daughter two years ago, and i couldnt imagine any woman iut there that cant experiance that. Im healthy and ready so if the are any intrest in this my email is yatophiamoore@gmail.com. Dont be afaid im a real person and if any questions contact me by email ill respond asap

  • Summer

    Hi. My husband I are looking for a surrogate. We live in Mo and our fertility clinic is in St. Louis. Please contact me if you are interested and we can discuss our situation more. Summermae21@gmail.com
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  • Nicole

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    a half and recently found out that I am unable to carry a baby due to a uterine
    abnormality. We have been through
    multiple fertility avenues from IUI to IVF and continuously miscarry or have
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    baby. We are in the process of egg
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    parents. We are easy to get along with
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  • Harvey

    My partner and I nearly lost hope when we recently found out Mexico was banning gay-/foreign-based surrogacy…until we read this. Thank you for giving us something to believe in when all doors seem closed.

  • perald

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  • Aubrey

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  • Devian

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  • Kelcie Howard

    Hello everyone. My name is Kelcie Howard and I live in OK. I’m looking to become a Gestational Surrogate mother to bring the miracle of life into a single person’s or couple’s life. I gave vaginal birth to my daughter and pregnancy was a breeze. No complications whatsoever. I don’t smoke or do drugs or drink alcohol. I am currently in college furthering my education. I have insurance. Compensation can be negotiated. E-mail me at kelcie.howard13@yahoo.com if you have any questions.

    • Kalina Martinez

      Hello Kelcie, it always amazes me to meet women like you who think about being surrogate mothers.
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  • LM

    Hello,
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  • Dan Reilly

    My name is Dan and my wife and I tried for years after marriage to conceive to no avail. I am self employed and my wife although being a nurse for many years, now works as a nanny because she loves kids so much. Over the past couple of years, and mostly In recent months, it has started to take a toll on her that she “couldn’t give me a child”. I told her that its okay and that we can look to alternative options and possibly adoption. We basically spent all of the money that was left to us from when her mother passed away to purchase a home and work with fertility doctors who seemed to think that we should get pregnant rather quickly, but no such luck. The doctors have identified that my sperm are fine and that the problem lies within her organs. We have agreed that we can’t go through the pain of trying again now that she is almost 44 and that the last couple of times that we went to the doctor, they didn’t feel that there were any potentially good eggs and that age is becoming another factor that can hinder any solid chances to conceive. We believe that whatever plans the man upstairs has for us will take root. We can offer a loving home and stable surroundings in St. Louis. Thanks for reading and god bless all.

    • Jesse

      Hi! My name is Jesse and I’ve wanted to help a couple have a baby for a long time. I’ve looked into the traditional route of surrogacy and found I never fit into the BMI guidelines. I’m still healthy regardless! I’m an active, educated 34 year old, happily married mother of two. Both of my very good looking kiddos attend a gifted elementary school. I live a simple holistic life. 🙂 Please email me if you want to talk further. I’m in St. Louis too … Funny enough I clicked “reply” before I even realized you were in St. Louis.

      Hope to hear from you soon!
      Jesse
      Jessemarie20@hotmail.com

  • Monika

    Hi everyone! I’m new here, but feel like I need help and support, because me and my husband cannot have a baby, and we were advised to undergo IVF treatment. I feel upset about it even though I realize this will help us to conceive our own child. Is there anyone who have faced this problem? I wanted to know more about IVF and surrogacy. We don’t know where to start…

    • Meddy_L

      Hey there! Don’t worry, you’ll get by!! I’d recommend not to despair and to be patient. IVF is no a bad thing, it is a procedure that will help you to have a child and expand your family smile I did undergo that and was frustrated too, I was scared and unsure in everything i’ve been doing. But my husband along with the experts of an agency we worked with helped me to survive this process and now I have a beautiful daughter! Trust me, you’ll never look back at your fears once you’ll have a baby!! At first you need to find a good clinic and undergo all medical examinations. Or you can do so before going to the clinic, and then they will tell you what to do next. But I personally worked with an agency that took care of everything so didn’t have to worry of all organizational steps.

      • Charle09

        Hey! Sorry for interrupting.. WHat agency did you work with?

    • Amy Payne

      I know a couple women who have used IVF. One of those my sister. She has done it twice and has 2 beautiful children. It’s definitely worth it.

      I think with any treatment it can be emotionally draining and difficult at times, but it is so well worth it.

    • Corissa

      My husband and I both were told we were infertile and pressured to adopt or at least find donor sperm. Not accepting our circumstances, we sought out an ivf clinic and he tried clomid but half as much as women usually take for an iui. We were successful in creating 5 embryos, transfered 2 fresh and have fraternal twins. Currently preggo with another after transfered 2 frozen embies and due in dec. The journey and hardships were worth it and would like to surrogate for a couple that has also struggled. Best of luck on your journey!

  • Charle09

    Hi! It’s been two and a half years that my husband and I are trying to fight infertility. We have contacted few clinics. So far, there are no results and it is not clear who is to blame. Can you help us to find the clinic in United States, which effectively deals with IVF?

    • Whitney Anderson

      Are you international? You’re just trying to find a clinic in the US to use?

      • Charle09

        I am originally from Europe, but want to undergo that in USA. there are a lot of propositions that don’t seem to be a good option for me. I know it is an expensive procedure, but even with accepting that I’d like to have an all-inclusive package that most of clinics don’t offer..

        • Rachel_R

          Look at my post above, if you’re looking for all in one package maybe you’ll like Canadian Medical Care. I’ve explained my experience above (www.surrogacy1.com) 🙂

    • Meddy_L

      I actually did undergo my treatment in USA, in New York. The procedure itself is expensive, its true, but you can still find a good option. For my surrogate pregnancy I have been working with Canadian Medical Care (CMC). They have been amazing every step of the way so far!! They did a fantastic job matching us with our surrogate mother! What I love about CMC is that they are looking out for the best interest of EVERYONE involved. I highly recommend them.

  • Lisa

    Hi! Today on the Internet you can find ads of young women who are willing to become a surrogate mother. The ads stated that women are already examined, healthy and agree on a relatively small amount of compensation – 3-5 thousand dollars. How real this amount is and is there a danger of fraud? Is it really dangerous to find a surrogate on your own? And if yes, who is it possible to ask? Maybe there are some agencies exist?

    • Rachel_R

      Hi Lisa! If you’re in search of a surrogate mother on the Internet, the risk that you may become a victim of fraud is really high. I’ve heard that many women make fake certificates of their health status. There are fraudsters who ask to send the money for medical examination and then just disappear. Also I heard about the cases when a surrogate mother after pregnancy has tried to increase the amount of compensation, blackmailing potential parents with the intentional termination of pregnancy… The amount of 3-5 thousand dollars compensation is unreal. About this sum you can only speak in India but I would not suggest to do it there. There are a lot of agencies that may help you, depending on where you want to undergo the program?

      • Lisa

        Hi! Thanks for your answers!! Yes it is always tough to decide on your own, and I’d like to have a support of professionals, but usually the price is so high.. I’d actually undergo that in USA, and looking for clinic there..

        • Rachel_R

          Of course it is not cheap as was said before, but I personally was feeling more safe when I worked with an agency. You can also find a good option in terms of price. There are some clinics that offer procedures no matter if you’ll decide to find a surrogate mother on your own or not, but then you’d have to organize all the process yourself. There are a lot of details. If you want a good service that will include all steps (procedure, documentation etc.) then I c an only suggest the one I’ve been working with. It is called Canadian Medical Care, here’s the link on their website: http://www.surrogacy1.com
          I’ve been treated so nice and warm and I like the entire all-inclusive package they offer for affordable price. They have been amazing every step of the way so far!! They did a fantastic job matching us with our surrogate mother! What I love about CMC is that they are looking out for the best interest of EVERYONE involved. I highly recommend them.

    • Whitney Anderson

      Lisa, Yes, there is always the chance for fraud. Be smart. Find them on Facebook and look around. Hire a private investigator. Use your intuition. For someone to be out there advertising 3-5k, 1) seems low 2) seems odd. People that are actively marketing themselves are looking to make money – like $20,000. The people that are not looking to make money probably aren’t the people placing ads. Make sense? Those doing it altruistically are probably just asking around or keeping their ears open for a situation.

      That said, I met my GC because she found THIS website and contacted me out the blue. I asked her a ton of questions, poked around her social media, spoke on the phone, met in person, etc. And, it worked out great.

      If you are uncomfortable going independent, then you can use an agency, but be prepared to pay a ton of money though.

      • Charle09

        Hi Whitney,
        I’d just say that I was the same scared of finding a surrogate mother online, but almost every agency didn’t fit in terms of priuce. But then I found Canadian Medical Care, they are offering all the services for a good price. They also have all included service. Check them out! http://www.surrogacy1.com

      • Lisa

        How does someone post on this site? I am not on Face Book or tweeter.

  • Heidy

    Hi There,

    My name is Heidy. After few failed attempts seeking for surrogate oversea due to over rate expenses in U.S for a surrogate fee. We came back empty hands and disappointed with migration law and regulation often change without notice in advance. A little bit about my back ground. My husband (Indian) and I (Vietnamese) are happy married couple for 3 years, after he lay his eyes on me one afternoon back yard BBQ of a close friend 7 years ago. I have a child from my previous marriage, however, after a child birth complication result in hysterectomy. I want to give my husband a child of his own, because he is wonderful father to my son, he work hard and provided everything that needed for my son to be successful in life and never ask for anything in return. Beside, he is the eldest son of a loving Asian family, who just love and accepting me for who I am. Well!! no pressure, here I am desperately looking for a kind heart landing me a tummy..:-) (Surrogate mother). I can be reached at trenailbar@gmail.com.

    Hugs and kisses,
    H.

  • Sara Brown

    Hi, My name is Sara & my husband is Lance. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter, Peyton, whom I carried myself naturally. I was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 15 months old & have fought it twice in the past 3 years. I beat it and am in remission now. Yay! However I’ve been told the toll on my body will make it difficult to carry successfully any of the 7 embryos we had frozen before I began my chemo treatments many years ago. We are interested in having a surrogate carry for us. Please contact me if you are interested in helping our family at sarabrown021@gmail.com. We are located in Southern California.

    • Whitney Anderson

      Hi Sara,

      Just wanted to say I’m sorry for all you’ve been through. I’m glad to hear you are in remission. I pray that you will find a gestational carrier to help you out and wish you the best of luck.

      Thanks,
      Whitney

  • Tracy Zhang

    We are a stable, happily married heterosexual couple, who lives in San Diego, CA. We are schoolmate and met in the campus library ten years ago. Since then we fell in love and married. We love each other so much and dream of becoming someone’s parents for long time. We joined county adoption program a couple years ago and got parenting license. We opened to all races, but unfortunately no little kids could be placed. I am getting older now and cannot carry the embryo myself due to large fibroids. My doctor suggests hysterectomy, so sad.

    I and my husband play games at home and sometimes we pretended we are little kids,,, imagine our little kid could do this or could do that with us, teardrops going down our heart I can see.

    We are looking for a GC in great San Diego. If you are willing to help, we much appreciate your love heart and consideration. The medical screening can start right away. Look forward to having you to witness the miracle moment with us.
    email me: TracySDZY@gmail.com

  • Lilly Miller

    We are a heterosexual happily married couple,outgoing and friendly,honest and caring , reliable and financially stable and ready to embark on this adventure of a lifetime with the right match. Looking for a wonderful, open minded , down to earth traditional surrogate to help us grow our family , give our only child a long wanted sibling and make our family complete.
    Ideally you live in the NY,PA,NJ,NH,MD,MA,CT,FL,ORD area. We are ready to start this journey right away.

    I am a homeschooling mum, enjoy organic cooking , the outdoors, animals ,arts and more. After several heartbreaks we are looking for a surrogate.
    XOXO & peace, Lilly , NYC
    lillyfromnyc@gmail.com

    • Charle09

      Hey! do you actually know any agency that works in USA area? We’re looking right now and I told my husband that I’m kinda scared of looking for the sm online. Thanks!

      • Monika

        Hey Charle! I’d suggest Canadian Medical Care that we worked with. It is a center of surrogacy and infertility treatment in New York.They have Cryo, Donor programs, IVF and definitely surrogacy.

        What i like about CMC is that they offer a full all inclusive package for those who want to take surrogacy program, and because they offer their services everywhere you can pick up the country you’d like, but I did undergo the program in NY. Here’s the right link for you: http://www.surrogacy1.com I think someone has mentioned it below as well.

        • Charle09

          Hey Monika! Do you actually know their prices? Did you use their services or you just know them? For me it is important that someone had a personal experience

          Thanks xoxo C.

  • Magg

    I prefer to contact clinic directly. I was looking sm on forums and had very negative experience. we offered remuneration (just 100-300 euros) to attract some attention. Finally, one women responded. We were chatting for a while with her. She told us all about herself and even sent some photos of her. We agreed to meet at hers. When we arrived, we were so excited to meet her face to face in real life. It was unbelievable that our dream to have a baby seemed so close to come true. We paid that woman a half of offered remuneration (of course it was not official ‘cause it’s illegal to pay surrogacy mother) and agreed to pay other half after the procedure of fertilization. And you can’t imagine how desperate I was when she disappeared just after we gave her money. And I also made some research and found that agencies have extra fees for service which clinic can provide for free.

    • Kathy Magness

      Ohhh myyy God!!!! I’ve been reading and looking into this for about 6 months. The stories are amazing… But this….I’m so sorry that a person could take advantage of a woman wanting a family. I just don’t get it. :/

    • Jesse

      I’m so sorry you went through that. People like that should be arrested.
      Unfortunately, I think women are in it for the money instead of the amazing gift they could provide. I’ve never been a surrogate, but I want to. Agencies are safe … The downfall from my perspective is their BMI guidelines. I’m not a huge woman, I look regular. Lol. But, nonetheless do not meet their weight standards.
      I hope your dreams come true sooner than later.

      Respectfully,
      Jesse

  • Lisa

    I am a single woman looking for a Gestational Carrier to transfer my frozen embryos. I live in MD. Please contact me at waka3474@gmail.com

  • Lilly Miller

    Heterosexual married caucasian couple looking for a TS. Tri-State area would be ideal. Compensation is negotiable.
    contact:
    searchingforourts@gmail.com

  • Deepali Shah

    Hi all, Me any my husband of 8 yrs looking for good hearted gestational surrogate.we already have high quality 2 frozen embryos in chicago but due to my condition i can not carry in my uterus. we are both 42 yrs old with stable life and incomplete family. We live in chicago suburb streamwood,il. Please send me email and we can negotiate compensation we don’t have big budget but will discuss it latter. My email address is shahdps16@gmail.com

  • venom

    What services does surrogacy offer?

    Pay less for surrogacy – choose an agency

    Surrogacy – it’s a great opportunity for childless couples to find a normal family. Thanks to agencies that provide a fully healthy, motivated and responsible women that want to http://surrogacy1.com/, it is easy for future parents to get genetically related to them baby. In this case the parties (clients, a surrogate mother and the doctor) sign a contract in which all parts of the program are clearly drafted.

    There are many reasons why a family cannot afford to have a baby; they are mainly related to health, age, or lack of time. Infertility problems occur mostly in women, but are pretty common among men. It happens that adoption is not always satisfies the future parents. In this case, it worth considering the clinics that do provide surrogacy services.

    Specifically for infertile families the agency finds a completely healthy woman who is capable of bear and give birth to a healthy child that will accumulate the genes of future parents. The process begins with the fact that an embryo created from the egg of donor or future mother, fertilized with sperm of her husband (or donor), carefully tended, planted in the uterus of http://surrogacy1.com/. Since all the information is encoded in the embryo, and the external features of the health of a surrogate mother are not transferred to a child.

    Similar reproductive technology can guarantee that you’ll become parents. At the same time appealing to the agency that deals with surrogacy is going to cost less than if you had to take an infinite number of procedures to restore reproductive function.

    During pregnancy doctors and supervisors are monitoring the health of the future mother, completely controlling the process:

    • preparation for the transfer of the embryo;

    • execution of all necessary studies;

    • check conditions of accommodation and food of http://surrogacy1.com/;

    • medical examination;

    • assistance in official registration of the child.

    Thus, surrogacy gives a guarantee that the child will be conceived in a healthy body, and the whole process of pregnancy will take place under the scrutiny of experts. Of course, the cost surrogacy is not super low. However, this price is considered as low because it includes legal, financial and medical aspects.

    On the Internet there are lots of offers by individuals that want to be a surrogate. There is no guarantee that these services are going to work. Cost may increase and such cases eventually affect the health of the child. Only cooperation with professionals will allow with confidence and calmness to realize a dream.

  • Brenda

    Hello, I am a two time experienced surrogate 2011 & 2013 I am 49 very healthy on no medications and I am have been given the ALL CLEAR by my doctor who did my last delivery in 2013 to be a surrogate again. I live in Orange County, California. I look forward to hearing from you brekennedy@aol.com.

    • Princess Jen

      sent you an email with subject surrogate

  • Amy Payne

    Hello. I am 36 years old and infertile. When I was 21 I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Ovarian Cancer and underwent a hysterectomy and 6 months of chemotherapy. Only to later find out I did not have cancer. I have always wanted to have a child of my own. Unfortunately, the cost is horrific for someone who is infertile.

    I am married now and would love to start a family with my husband. We made some appointments and I’ve done extensive research on agencies. The average cost I have found is $130K. We would like to find a private surrogate and are willing to negotiate fees.

    I can be contacted at amypayne1979@gmail.com.

    I look forward to hearing from anyone who can give me some advice.

    Desperately seeking,
    Amy

  • Chante

    Hi, I’m 22 from Chicago Illinois and I’m interested in becoming a surrogate mother for a amazing family that can’t have their own! Please feel free too email me. Chantewilliams38@gmail.com

  • erzey

    Hi I have a sister who live in Philippines she’s 31 years old this coming September and she’s willing to become a surrogate mom she’s healthy and don’t have any vices at all email me at babyerzey@gmail.com for any question.

  • Angelina S

    Hello my name is Angelina I am looking to be a surrogate mother to a awesome family single mother with two children very honest and caring person 🙂 email me at ababyforyou32@yahoo.com thank you everyone on here is in my prayers

    • Tami

      Hi I’m very interested in having baby please get back to me.

      • Sharlena Combs

        Plz explain if u are willing to have a baby or if u are wanting a baby?? Thanks because if u are willing to have a baby plz message me

    • Patricia

      I am interested wanted a baby but I cant have any

  • Lina Rashid

    Hello. My name is Lina and I’m looking for a surrogate as well. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for several years and several fertility treatments haven’t worked for us. I also have lupus SLE which complicates the chances of a successful pregnancy so we’re running out of options. Asking someone to be a gestational carrier is a tremendous ask, but if there’s someone out there who’s willing to help us please contact me at lina.choudhry@gmail.com

  • Alejandra Ontiveros Flores

    Hello my name is Alejandra 28 yrs old proud mother of 4 and another one to make his arrival in October. I have always wanted to become a Surrogate Mother But like I mentioned to a surrogate Mom seeker have always been skeptical about scamy agencies, and would like to take a more private individual approach ! my doctor said I can become a Surrogate by the end of this year if I wanted to since thanks to God all my deliveries have been “naturally” and healthy! I am new to Jacksonville, FL from Texas originally from El Paso! please contact me if you would like to give me and opportunity to help you and become part of this awesome experience of Parenthood!!! alex64912@gmail.com

  • Mica Dickey

    Hello,
    My Name is Tamica Dickey, I am 22. I have 1 pregnancy and was successful I had a beautiful daughter who is health and almost 2 now. I love and miss pregnancy I have since the day I had my daughter but do not wish to have a child of my own. I am healthy I also teach in home bigger pole lessons for fitness to local women. This is a very safe job even while pregnant I have had this varied threw three doctor’s. I am now looking to help someone who would love a child but can’t seem to have much luck themselves. I love in a small town outside of Waco, TX. I am not expecting 20,000 as I can see why family’s and individuals could struggle with this payment. Make and offer and every month for 9 months I would like to set up a payment plan as it will insure communication and insure that both parties are happy. If you are interested in anything more or would like to hire me to carry your child please feel free to coach me anytime.
    Enail- Tamicashae93@gmail.com
    TEXT: 2542298229
    P.S please text do not call I teach lessons threw out the day with short breaks I will get back to you as soon as possible!

    • Felix Perez

      Hi Tamica, just read your comment, Partner and I are in NJ. would like to talk to you about surrogacy, pfelix3052@aol.com
      201-725-4315
      Felix

  • Cymone

    Hello,

    My name is Cymone I’m 25 and I’m looking to become a gestational surrogacy, but my biggest downfall has been I’ve never giving birth before, the particular reason behind me wanting to do this is very dear to my heart. I see so many people willing to pay to have someone carry their little one, but for me it’s never been about the money I have a family member that’s trying her hardest to try and have a baby but many failed attempts. She’s going to try at least once or twice more to see if she’s able, but I’m wanting to help out any couple that is willing to take the journey with me to giving them there little dream and also help me decide if being a mom is something I really want. I scheduled and passed every test my doctor has giving me to make sure my health and insides can handle it, I’ve went so far as to go to therapy as well to make sure I’m emotional stable for this and so far I am. It breaks my heart to know that I cant give the gift of life to someone that’s yearns so badly for it, if anyone knows a agency that will allow someone like me to become a gestational surrogacy I would greatly appreciate it. I don’t smoke only drink wine on occasions and I’m in school fulltime as well and I also have a stable home environment.

    • Princess Jen

      sent you a message to your email subject surrogate

  • Betty Stephens

    My husband and I are looking for a TS in the texas area mbstephens8986@yahoo.com

  • LSant

    Hi;
    My name is Lu, my husband and I live in MA and we’ve been married coming up on 9 years. We have a special needs little boy who turned 8 yesterday. He keeps asking for a little brother/sister. We went through a lot getting him diagnosed and we wasted a lot of years worrying about the possibilities of having to go through it again with a second child. We have tried several times within the past few years and several miscarriages later and we are so emotionally drained – the chances of having a 2nd child with special needs is greater the older we get as well but our little boy so desperately wants a sibling and we would love to have a second child. Would love to see if surrogacy could be the answer for us. If anyone is out there willing to help us, we’d love to hear from you. We are willing to travel as well to states close by. Thank You

  • Amy Payne

    Hello I posted a comment on here a few months ago stating my husband and I are looking for a surrogate. I got super excited with the feedback I received but as soon as I sent a list of questions to these women I never heard a response back. I am beginning to feel defeated.

    When I was 21 years old I was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer (I am now 37 years old). I underwent a hysterectomy and 6 months of chemotherapy only to later find out I never had ovarian cancer. My goal in life is to become a mother. It’s all I ever wanted.

    We are searching for an honest, healthy surrogate (preferably in Texas) but that is not a requirement. We are willing to travel if needed.

    If you are interested or know of anyone interested please contact me via email at amypayne1979@gmail.com. Please contact me only if you are serious.

  • Bruce B

    Hello I am looking for a surrogate as well, i’m a 50 single male that lost the track of time and had no kids. Now it’s almost to late i’m hopping to be able to find a gestational surrogate.I don’t have a lot of cash but maybe someone out of the goodness of there heart and god would help me have a child.I have a lot of family that would help me if i need them I live in upstate NY I would travel to meet with you or talk on phone or E-mail. bb41376@yahoo.com IZ know there’s probley not a chance for someone to do this for free but I can only ask.Thank for reading . I really do want a child of my own.

  • Crystal

    Hey I’m
    Crystal I’m 26 years old been with my husband for 5 years now we want a famil but I can’t give him
    That we would love some help
    Or where to
    Go how to get help to the right ppl

  • Jennifer Smith

    Hi! I’m Jenn from Louisville, KY. My husband of 8 years and I are blessed to have a blended family of 5 amazing children ranging in age from 10-15. I have 2 sons from my first marriage and he has 3 daughters from his first. We have wanted nothing more than to have a child together. Unfortunately, 11 years ago after giving birth to my youngest, I had to have an emergency hysterectomy. My world was crushed!! We are hoping and praying to find a surrogate mommy to bless us with another child. We are full of love and happiness, but with a not-so-large bank account!! The agencies are so very expensive that we started loosing faith. If anyone is willing to discuss or knows anyone that is… Please contact me at jennsmith0404@gmail.com.

    Thank you.

    • Aicia Riggle

      Hello Jennifer I’m sorry to hear about your situation but I would be very happy to be a surrogate for you if you’d like? You can email me if you are interested @ aliciariggle1994@gmail.com I am 22 years old with two sons of my own. I wish you and your family the best of luck.

  • Aicia Riggle

    Hello,
    My name is Alicia I am 22 years old and I have two beautiful little boys. I have always wanted to help a family who cannot have children on their own. For any questions if you are interested in me being a surrogate for you, contact me @ aliciariggle1994@gmail.com

    • David Bradham- Solomon Jr (red

      Hey Alicia I’m a gay man my name is David Bradham. I was just wondering if you are a free surrogates that wouldn’t mind having a baby for me and my partner if you could email me at bradham40@gmail.com or if you knows someone that willing to be one please email me 🙂 I live in Charleston, South Carolina .

  • Kimberly Lavoie

    Hi!

    My name is Kim and I am from New York. Unfortunately at the young age of 15, I was diagnosed with MRKH syndrome(Mayer rokitansky kuster hauser syndrome). For those who don’t know, this means I was born without a uterus and with only 1 kidney. I am only starting to come out of my shell with this, as it is embarrassing for me to be a woman who is unable to carry her own child. It has taken a great deal of strength and courage to begin sharing my story with others. I still have yet to tell/ask my family because of my emotional feelings toward the whole situation. My husband and I are just beginning to look into having a child via ivf and surrogacy. I started to lose hope when finding out how much agencies charge for surrogacy. I felt so unlucky. Why is it that women all over can get pregnant and not have to pay for anything and those faced with infertility have to pay thousands just to have a child? Then I met some women who are also diagnosed with MRKH who lifted my spirits and lead me in the right direction. My husband and I are currently looking for a surrogate and praying that someone can answer our prayers.

  • Kimberly Lavoie

    Hi!

    My name is Kim and I’m from Long Island, New York. At the young age of 15 I was diagnosed with MRKH syndrome (Mayer rokitansky kuster hauser syndrome), which means that I was born without a uterus and with 1 kidney. When I found out I was crushed. It was my dream to have my own family and I was so upset to hear that I wouldn’t be able to carry my own children. This has been an emotional ordeal for me as I feel embarrassed that I cannot do what women are made to do. I hate having to put my medical history on the table to everyone and have still not told/asked family due to my embarrassment. My husband and I began to look into having our own children via ivf and surrogacy. I started to lose faith when finding out how much surrogacy agency’s charge. This was already emotional for me and now to find that this was out of reach left me devestated, until I joined an MRKH support group with other women just like me. They built my confidence up and I finally mustered up the courage to write this. My husband and I are looking for a surrogate to answer our prayers to have a child of our own! Please contact me if you are interested! You will be our biggest blessing in life. My email is kimberlydazzo@yahoo.com. Thank you for reading!

    • Markia Brown

      I am so sorry to hear that I would love to help u if u want my help I am health I would love to help people who who endure this please contact me at markia1236@gmail.com

  • kimberley

    Hi,

    Also you can find interesting website who can help you,like
    menshavingbabies.org
    mysurrogatemom.com

  • Sarah

    Hi there!
    My name is Sarah and my husband live in MI and I are looking for a GS. We have 3 sons…Hunter is 6, Charlie will be 5 this weekend, and our youngest son, Fletcher, entered into Heaven in June 2015 at 2 days old. He passed away very unexpectedly due to complications during my C-section. Due to these complications, we’ve been told that it’s very risky for me to carry another baby. We’ve looked into adoption, but are extremely fearful of potentially having to give our baby back, yet again. We’ve done a lot of research on surrogacy and would love to get the ball rolling ASAP; however, it’s quite discouraging how expensive it can be! Every potential GC I’ve talked to is looking for $25k plus and we simply can’t afford that. Please contact me if you have any ideas for us or if you might be interested in being a carrier for us 🙂 My email address is sarahlizcole@yahoo.com. Thanks so much!

    • sarah

      I just realized that my first sentence doesn’t make any sense! Ha! I meant to say that my name is Sarah and my husband and I are looking for a GS in or around MI (we live in MI). 🙂

  • Renata Powell

    Hi my name is Renata! Me and my husband just got married in July of this year, then soon after I found out I had endometrial cancer. Not only did I have cancer but I had to have a total hysterectomy to remove the tumor.. Very devastating for us both as we both wanted to have children together badly. We are young I’m 31 and he’s 28, I just had my hysterectomy 2 weeks ago so emotions are still all over the place ( I’m crying as I’m writing this). We are now looking at either adoption or preferably a surrogate. We are so confused on where to start, and how to even find our own surrogate as we too our looking for the least expensive way. With my cancer, surgery, medications, time off work, and treatments we are already in the negative. I’m suppose to be a mother, and even tho it’s not in gods plans for me to have a baby naturally I would still love to be able to have the baby be my husbands blood born, and for us to be able to go thru the entire pregnancy process with someone that’s carrying our baby, and be able to name and have our baby from birth! I would appreciate any help very much and be forever grateful… Blessings to All

    • Whitney Anderson

      I am so sorry, Renata. I hope you will find an angel to help you like we did.

    • Markia Brown

      Hi my name is markia I am able to have kids if you still want to email me at markia1236@gmail.com

    • Elena Shmonina

      Please reach out, I would like to see if we can help you.
      Elena@lovelty.com

      • Sharlena Combs

        I was wondering If u could help me. I cant have any more kids do to a total Hyseterctomy myself Yes I am greatful for my son who I adopted 11 years ago but my husband and I really want a baby of our own to combine the love we have since we have only been married a short time. although we have been toghother for about 7 years I was afraid to marry him knowing I was not going to be able to give him the one thing we all three wanted which was a child of our own for my husband and I and a brother or sister for my son plz email me if u have any thoughts or help.thanks so much. wildmaybe4756@gmail.com

        • Akuchi Kendra

          My name is Kendra, I am willing to help you achieve this beautiful goal,because I believe children are priceless.its really not about the money for me, I will explain why to you. I am 27years old, a mother to a beautiful daughter, healthy,educated and single.I have a lovely family too.I enjoy being pregnant and I can’t wait to put that smile on your face. Email me on kuchikendra@gmail.com

  • Renata Powell

    I forgot to post my email
    renata_robinson@ yahoo.com
    Thank you all so much

  • Raj Lookingsurrogate

    Hello, My name is Raj and we are indian heterosexual couple married from 9years. We live in North Carolina USA. We have tried to conceive in many ways from last 5 yrs without any luck, We have frozen embryos and looking for surrogate. We need help and we appreciate your kindness to help, Please email me at rajscontact@yahoo.com

  • Sri Vanhofwegen

    I am so excited my hunny said we can start the process for a surrogate. I don’t know where to start or how to go about this. My sister said she can do it, I would love to have another baby and he’s totally for it we just don’t know where to start. Any info would be very helpful.

  • patrizia

    Hello to everyone. I am writing here because we are desperately looking for a surrogate in the VA/DC/MD area. I always wanted a child but with my husband being a soldier he was always gone, then the war started and it all got even more complicated. Now that he is finally retired from the Service I realized that I am 42 and I was told that best if I wouldn’t carry a child. But I honestly don’t want to leave this world without having experienced what it means or feels to be called “mom”!!! So much love we have to give to a child. We kind of found a surrogate but because she lives in a different State, the legal part could become difficult, very expensive or even impossible. And we are in the process of finding out. If anybody knows of anybody willing to help please contact us. Truly appreciated!!! Serious people only!!! Thank you!!!
    Trish.forte@yahoo.com

  • Di Ra

    We are a heterosexual couple living in the SFO Bay Area looking for a gestational carrier. I have been through a tough year with fertility treatments that led to an early miscarriage, followed by loss of twins at 22 weeks. My doctor has told me that my uterus is severely scarred from the D & E. My most recent treatment failed and now we are heart broken. After all the hospital bills coupled with fertility treatment costs, we have decided to look for a gestational surrogate who is not tied to an agency and who may have health insurance of her own. We will pay a monthly allowance, legal fees and costs for tests/transfer etc. Please contact me if you are interested and willing to by our knight in shining armor. We are looking to start as early as next year. My email address is divyakrao@yahoo.com.
    Thank you !!!!

  • Emanuel

    Hi we are looking for a ts surrogate mother and my email address is emanuelgomezgarcia@gmail.com thanks

  • Chris

    I just finished my first surrogacy Journey, what an amazing experience. Making a good match is so important, even if all the other things fall into place a strong relationship with the parents and surrogate is sooooo key.❤

  • Lori

    My husband and I recently got married. Together we have four children. In 2008 I had complications and had to have a hysterectomy. I was okay with it because my ex and I had a boy and a girl. Now that I am remarried we really want to have a child together. I cannot find a surrogate.

    • Akuchi Kendra

      My name is Kendra, I am willing to help you achieve this beautiful goal.I am 27years old, a mother to a beautiful daughter, healthy,educated and single.I have a lovely family too.I enjoy being pregnant and I can’t wait to put that smile on your face. Email me on kuchikendra@gmail.com

  • poonam

    Hi my name is Poonam from New York. My husband and I have been trying to conceive since the last 8 years. Unfortunately, I have Poor Overran Syndrome, where I can use donor’s egg, but after trying more then 10 cycles but it did not work,We have spent so much money on the treatment with no results. i took a break for two years as i was going through heavy depression. We are thinking for surrogacy. If any one out there who is willing to discuss or help please reach out to me on poonam288@yahoo.com

    • Whitney Anderson

      Poonam, I am so sorry. I will keep my ears open for you.

      • poonam

        Thank you so much Whitney, this means a lot to me 🙂

    • Akuchi Kendra

      My name is Kendra, I am willing to help you achieve this beautiful goal,because I believe children are priceless.its really not about the money for me, I will explain why to you. I am 27years old, a mother to a beautiful daughter, healthy,educated and single.I have a lovely family too.I enjoy being pregnant and I can’t wait to put that smile on your face. Email me on kuchikendra@gmail.com

  • Reese Majesky

    Hi, I’m reese 34 from sc, my hubby (he’s 26)and I have been together 6 years, married since April 2016. I have am almost 19 year old daughter whose gone on to college♡♡ she’s been my everything. We’re all starting new chapters in our lives and we want to grow our family as well. Sadly my husband, Shane and I don’t have children together, nor can I carry a child even though we badly want to. 3 years ago I had a hysterectomy due to repeated medical conditions involving my tubes and endometrial cancerous cells. I don’t even know if I could produce any eggs, but I think my husbands sperm should be viable, we really want to grow our family, but I just started researching surrogacy and adoptions and this was the first site I saw that gave me comfort. It’s so expensive, and how do you find coverage for this, we just got health insurance for ourselves. We have no much love to give and are more realistic with expectations. we’re open to any suggestions, if anyone is willing to share their stories with me I’d feel honored and grateful. or if you know someone that is looking to offer themselves, is that even the right wording.

  • Jessica Barnett

    Hi!! I’m Jessica from Houston, TX. and I’m 34 years old. I’m currently engaged and have four beautiful, healthy girls.. ages 11, 7, 4 and 2. I have been thinking of becoming a surrogate for quite sometime now.. I’ve done a whole lot of research and the more I looked into it, the more I became passionate about the idea. I have been blessed with four healthy babies.. the least I could do is pay it forward! I believe everyone deserves a chance to become a parent, it’s the most wonderful feeling in the world! It would be a honor to be a part of making someones dreams come true, as mine did 🙂 It’s the ULTIMATE GIFT!
    *If you live near Houston, Tx or are willing to travel than email me!.. I’d love to discuss our options. I understand it needs to be a perfect fit from both parties involved, So getting to know each others expectations ia a must! ** Jbarnett701.jb@gmail.com

    • Dalhia Berfroid

      Hello:
      My husband and I are looking for a gestational surrogate. We have a beautiful healthy daughter which I was fortunate enough to carry. I can no longer carry a pregnancy and we would love to add another child to our family using a gestational surrogate. Please contact me if you are interested in giving my family the gift of another child.

      Thank you,
      dalhiaberfroid@gmail.com

    • Misty Evans Hartzog

      My husband and I are from Alabama but he works offshore and we visit Houston often. We would love to talk if you have not matched with intended parents.

  • Jillian Jackson

    I am currently in the process of looking for a gestational carrier. I have one perfect beautiful boy. I however have auto antibodies and hypertension that put a fetus and myself and high risk of mortality and am unable to safely carrier a child. More than anything my husband and I would love another child. Does anyone know anyone interested in being a gestational carrier that would be willing to travel to Arizona for the transfer.
    jilliansplace@hotmail.com

  • Elena Shmonina

    I know everyone is so concern about international surrogacy, I was also concern, but I ended up shipping my embryos to Russia and now have twins. There is definitely a shortage of quality surrogates in US and not all states even allow it, I am not even going to mention costs of surrogacy is US, Russia is half of that if not less. I ended up helping many IPs now become a fierce advocate for the cause.
    https://www.facebook.com/RussianSurroacyService/

  • Princess Jen

    my husband and I are looking for a surrogate to carry our baby as i had a partial hysterectomy (no uterus but have everything else)
    we live in Texas

    please email me at jenm696969@hotmail.com for more info and put subject as surrogacy

    thank you in advance

  • Lisa Dawn

    Hi There –

    I love this posting. Thank you for sharing your quest to find an Surrogate.

    We are also looking for an Surrogate as well. Your pointers will help us out tremendously.

    Very hopeful in Maryland,

    Lisa 🙂

  • Venecia

    Hi, my name is Venecia and im looking for a GS. Ive been married to my husband for 7 years now and we’re both active duty military….well i just retired march 1. I have 2 beautiful kuds from a previous relationship but no living children together. We’ve had 5 miscarriages and 2 stillbirth, the most recent being just 8 days ago. Please if you can help us please email me at iloved3ks@yahoo.com. we’re stationed in VA so looking in the DMV area, but will consider other locations

    • Akuchi Kendra

      My name is Kendra, I am willing to help you achieve this beautiful goal,because I believe children are priceless.its really not about the money for me, I will explain why to you. I am 27years old, a mother to a beautiful daughter, healthy,educated and single.I have a lovely family too.I enjoy being pregnant and I can’t wait to put that smile on your face. Email me on kuchikendra@gmail.com

  • David

    My name is Heather and my husband, David and I are looking for a surrogate. We have been happily married for 13 years and long for another child. Unfortunately, even ivf did not work. Please contact me at hkpitcher@gmail.com

  • HappySunny Day

    Hello,
    My name is Elena, my fiancé and I are looking for a surrogate. We have tried IVF for the last three years and have been unsuccessful. My physician just informed me that it is unsafe for me to continue with the fertility process due to health concerns. We would love to have a child together and are now exploring and in search for a gestational surrogate. We are an interracial couple so the surrogate would have to be comfortable with that. We cannot afford the high price that agencies are looking for and would appreciate the blessing of becoming parents at a reasonable fee. If you are out there and are willing and able to help us create our miracle please contact me at happysunnyday17@gmail.com
    Thanks and have a very blessed day

  • Lyle Herman

    Aloha! My husband Ying and I are looking for a surrogate to start out family. We will have embryos at the end of April and would love to find somebody living on the island of Oahu or even in the state of Hawaii. Please contact me if you are interested in helping us in this wonderful journey. In addition to reasonable compensation we will be eternally grateful for this priceless gift! Thank you so much!

    • Crystal Smallwood
    • Akuchi Kendra

      My name is Kendra, I am willing to help you achieve this beautiful goal,because I believe children are priceless.its really not about the money for me, I will explain why to you. I am 27years old, a mother to a beautiful daughter, healthy,educated and single.I have a lovely family too.I enjoy being pregnant and I can’t wait to put that smile on your face. Email me on kuchikendra@gmail.com

      • Dalhia Berfroid

        Hello:
        My husband and I are looking for a gestational surrogate. We live in New York have a beautiful healthy daughter which I was fortunate enough to carry. Due to medical issues I can no longer carry a pregnancy and we would love to add another child to our family using a gestational surrogate. Please contact me if you are interested in giving my family the gift of another child.

        Thank you,
        dalhiaberfroid@gmail.com

  • Meghan D

    Hi, My name is Meghan, and my husband and I want to start a family. We are both 34 and have no children. We want to surrogate but cannot afford to pay the amount agencies ask for, so we are looking for a surrogate on our own. Please email me for more information at Meghan.sharma_mcd@live.com. I would like to get more information.

  • Marsh Man

    Hello Everyone, My name is Marsh. I am a single gay man in San Francisco. I have been dreaming and saving to start a family. I would love to talk with someone about being a traditional surrogate. I can answer any questions and give out information. Please email me and I look forward to creating a family with you MASinSF@gmail.com

  • Andrea Sojková

    Hello, My name is Andrea and Im 30. I wanna become a surrogate mother. Me and my partner have 3 beautiful kids (8y,6y,1.5y). We had big talk about that we would like to help some heterosexual parents to have own baby. We have good lifestyle, good food, no smoking, no drugs. We live in Prague, Czech Republic (Europe). If you are interested contact me on: andrea.sojkova@gmail.com

  • Andrea Sojková

    Hello, My name is Andrea and Im 30. I wanna become a surrogate mother. Me and my partner have 3 beautiful kids (8y,6y,1.5y). We had big talk about that we would like to help some heterosexual parents to have own baby. We have good lifestyle, good food, no smoking, no drugs. We live in Prague, Czech Republic (Europe). If you are interested contact me on: andrea.sojkova@gmail.com

  • Tara Robinson

    Hi, my name is Tara and my husband and I have unfortunately failed 7 cycles of IVF. We make great embryos but they just don’t stick in me. We are in the process of looking for a gestational carrier to see if that might be a way for us to have the baby we have always wanted. If anyone in the Maryland area can help put us in contact with a potential gestational carrier, that would be wonderful. Thank you so much. tararobinson1@yahoo.com

  • Really helpfull post with good advices about how to find surrogate mother independent
    Thanks you for sharing! 🙂

  • Martin Morales

    Hello my name is Martin. I am a homosexual and have been with my partner for 6 years soon to be 7. We are looking to find a surrogate to carry a child for us. We live in California the Inland Empire to be exact. We both work and I am currently in nursing school. We are both 25 years old and feel now is the time to get started. Please contact me with any questions you may have or if you would like to talk more about this. Email: martinmorales09@gmail.com

  • Crys

    I am a 30 year old woman in a committed marriage with three healthy and beautiful children. Ages 7,3, and 1.5. My husband and I just recently started to look into blessing another couple with a baby. It is heavy on my heart and I would really like to help. I am in Pennsylvania.

    Feel free to contact me and perhaps we can match and move forward in the process.

    Genuinely

    • Brittany Burkhart

      Hi. I am a 30year old woman. Been in a committed relationship for the last 9 years we are getting married this year. My soon-to-be husband has two older children of his own 18, 14yrs. I love them like my own. Even though I did not give birth to them. But would love deeply that have my own. We are unable to have children of own due to the fact that he had a vasectomy 10 plus years ago. And I haven’t had the best luck with some health problems in the past. I also live in Pennsylvania. Could I have your email and possibly we could talk more?

    • James Filbry

      My wife and I have been trying for years now and are looking for a gestational surrogate as a family is very important to us. If there is anyone with a big enough heart and willing to speak more about this please let me know. jfilbry@hotmail.com

  • Tami

    I’m looking for someone who is willing to be a surrogate mother for a single female who can never have children of my own. I’m in South Fla. I am looking for someone who isn’t in it for the money but who is wanting to help from their heart and who is very open to compensation.

  • Tami

    I have been wanting so badly to be a mom and I am unable to have a child of my own. I’m looking for a surrogate who is altruistic and would be happy to help out. I have so much love to give and a very big heart. I’m hoping to be a mom before leaving this earth.

  • Emanuel

    I wanna be a Father I’m looking for a surrogate l don’t have money looking for someone to wanna help me I can donate my sperm if sombody needed please help. Emaill emanuelgomezgarcia@gmail.com

  • Cassie Linn

    Hello,
    I’m a loving mum of 4 healthy kids. I seem to have a knack for getting pregnant lol. I love it and being a mom! I am a private care nurse for a lovely elderly couple with Alzheimer’s and some family joked that I’m so good at it, I should do it professionally. After a good laugh, I am seriously considering this. I don’t necessarily need the money, even tho it wouldn’t hurt 😂 But I would love to help fellow parents find there purpose aswell! I started searching and they all advertise this huge pay check 50-60k. I thought wow, what about the pre-parents that don’t have 50k laying around? They deserve to suffer by the hands of these kids too 😂 So here I am, putting myself out here. I am 35, in decent shape, honest and giving. My kids and I live in a 4 bedroom home in San Diego. My oldest is 18 and my youngest is 6 and I have full coverage health insurance. If you know of or are interested in meeting my family and I to see if this could work, please email me cassielinn28@icloud.com

  • Cassie Linn

    Hello,
    I’m a loving mum of 4 healthy kids. I seem to have a knack for getting pregnant lol. I love it and being a mom! I am a private care nurse for a lovely elderly couple with Alzheimer’s and some family joked that I’m so good at it, I should do it professionally. After a good laugh, I am seriously considering this. I don’t necessarily need the money, even tho it wouldn’t hurt 😂 But I would love to help fellow parents find there purpose aswell! I started searching and they all advertise this huge pay check 50-60 thousand. I thought wow, what about the pre-parents that don’t have 50k laying around? They deserve to suffer by the hands of these kids too 😂 So here I am, putting myself out here. I am 35, in decent shape, honest and giving. My kids and I live in a 4 bedroom home in San Diego. My oldest is 18 and my youngest is 6 and I have full coverage health insurance. If you know of or are interested in meeting my family and I to see if this could work, please email me cassielinn28@icloud.com